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Tuesday, August 25th 2009, 12:41am

A question of life

I´ve just come from my work, and today happened something it hadn´t happened to me since years...



I closed the restaurant so early (at 9:30 pm) because i was alone and i had to clean it very hard, and when i was finishing, three friends (girls) appeared to see me and talk a little, i offered them about have dinner together and we really had a great time, we also went out, made some jokes, had a drink...i really missed those things a lot, and that won´t be bad if those girls wasn´t so atracttive and one of them didn´t like me too much...

I dindn´t do "anything", but for a moment my mind was so blind, and i thought about something i´ve never thought before,i´m so calm but deep inside of me i like to rave and maybe my life is so boring...

I hope it was only an accident, i love my wife and my daughter and for nothing in this world i´ll hurt them.


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Tuesday, August 25th 2009, 12:45am

MY name is David, that´s all, i´m not jewish.


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Tuesday, August 25th 2009, 12:54am

So..if someone is called David he has to be jewish?? It´s a nice name, and one of my brother named me David because he likes it. In my family we all are atheist, nothing to do with any religion. Point ball.


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Tuesday, August 25th 2009, 1:08am

I know it, it´s only to explain that neither my brother knows anything about the Hebrew meaning of David: "Commandig officer", like David the King.


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Tuesday, August 25th 2009, 2:22am

Why did you change your name GeeTeeAge?

And @LostDavid... I don't think it's unnatural for you to sometimes feel like you want to have more fun in life. Of course having a wife and daughter would make it difficult but sometimes you have to sacrifice things you love for the things you love more. Like family.
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Tuesday, August 25th 2009, 9:33am

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Changed it because they banned me.
u were banned AGAIN???? this time for what? LOL :P
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Tuesday, August 25th 2009, 10:10am

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Changed it because they banned me.
u were banned AGAIN???? this time for what? LOL :P
Yeah I also want to know for what, ´cause I havn´t seen anything bad, which was written from you....

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Tuesday, August 25th 2009, 3:15pm

RE: A question of life

Quoted from "Lost David"

I´ve just come from my work, and today happened something it hadn´t happened to me since years...



I closed the restaurant so early (at 9:30 pm) because i was alone and i had to clean it very hard, and when i was finishing, three friends (girls) appeared to see me and talk a little, i offered them about have dinner together and we really had a great time, we also went out, made some jokes, had a drink...i really missed those things a lot, and that won´t be bad if those girls wasn´t so atracttive and one of them didn´t like me too much...

I dindn´t do "anything", but for a moment my mind was so blind, and i thought about something i´ve never thought before,i´m so calm but deep inside of me i like to rave and maybe my life is so boring...

I hope it was only an accident, i love my wife and my daughter and for nothing in this world i´ll hurt them.
I understand what you feel. Well, life is a bit boring with kids and stuff. No parties, you can do nothing wihtout planning it well in advance. For me it's like about 5 times a year to go out to party a little. Rest of the time is just making food, doing dishes, doing laundry and stuff. But that's how life is with kids and when marriaged. I do not miss my single years 'cause they weren't too wild to be honest... I'm happier in relationship and with a family. But sometimes it feels like every day was similar... (I've been at home with my kids 4 years now... :wacko: ) But it's like testing how adult you really are. It's not dangerous to feel bored. But I'd recommend to go out and party sometimes so that you will notice that you can have fun and that you've not just father for kids but you're stll yourself! It's nice to notice that there are still people who could be interested in you but you've made your decision and you've got your family now. But yes, it's still nice to get some attention! ;)

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Tuesday, August 25th 2009, 10:56pm

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I´ve just come from my work, and today happened something it hadn´t happened to me since years...



I closed the restaurant so early (at 9:30 pm) because i was alone and i had to clean it very hard, and when i was finishing, three friends (girls) appeared to see me and talk a little, i offered them about have dinner together and we really had a great time, we also went out, made some jokes, had a drink...i really missed those things a lot, and that won´t be bad if those girls wasn´t so atracttive and one of them didn´t like me too much...

I dindn´t do "anything", but for a moment my mind was so blind, and i thought about something i´ve never thought before,i´m so calm but deep inside of me i like to rave and maybe my life is so boring...

I hope it was only an accident, i love my wife and my daughter and for nothing in this world i´ll hurt them.
I understand what you feel. Well, life is a bit boring with kids and stuff. No parties, you can do nothing wihtout planning it well in advance. For me it's like about 5 times a year to go out to party a little. Rest of the time is just making food, doing dishes, doing laundry and stuff. But that's how life is with kids and when marriaged. I do not miss my single years 'cause they weren't too wild to be honest... I'm happier in relationship and with a family. But sometimes it feels like every day was similar... (I've been at home with my kids 4 years now... :wacko: ) But it's like testing how adult you really are. It's not dangerous to feel bored. But I'd recommend to go out and party sometimes so that you will notice that you can have fun and that you've not just father for kids but you're stll yourself! It's nice to notice that there are still people who could be interested in you but you've made your decision and you've got your family now. But yes, it's still nice to get some attention! ;)

RIght words, you totally get the point. Another wrong fact about me is that i was semi-professional sportsman when i was young and because of it i hadn´t so many time to rave, maybe i have burnt a part of my life that i would never get again...



But i repeat, i love my wife and my daughter, but the temptation is out there... :S


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Wednesday, August 26th 2009, 7:37am

Good that you understood what I meant. ;)

Yes, it can be that you've lost the partying part in your life while doing sports. I was a student when I was single and I was partuing pretty much... :D So I don't miss anything from that life now. But I understand totally what you mean 'cause we both are pretty much in same situation in life (with family). It's just a question of finding the balance in your life. It's the crisis of the age 30 I think! (At least it's for me 'cause I will turn 30 next January.) I don't know how old you are so don't know really if that was the case with you too. ;)

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Wednesday, August 26th 2009, 9:51am

I´m 28...I never had thought about age before this year, we´re not old, of course! but definitely we´re not teenagers...

How in the hell can HP do what he do!?? :D ;) or Rick, who has a family..


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Wednesday, August 26th 2009, 10:03am

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I´m 28...I never had thought about age before this year, we´re not old, of course! but definitely we´re not teenagers...
Hahaha....no, we are indeed no teenagers anymore, I'm 27, but luckily still feel like a teenager. ;) .....and by the way, I'm feeling free.....
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Wednesday, August 26th 2009, 10:35am

I think H.P. and Rick are just just doing their job - its different to yours and mine, but I guess at the end of the day when they go home they have regular family lives like the rest of us :-)

...BTW - you are all very young! Age does not change a lot of the way you feel and think, but I think the experience of life changes the way we react to some situations

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Wednesday, August 26th 2009, 10:36am

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I´m 28...I never had thought about age before this year, we´re not old, of course! but definitely we´re not teenagers...

How in the hell can HP do what he do!?? :D ;) or Rick, who has a family..

Ok then it must be the crisis of 30! It began at your age in my life too! I was thinking that I must be old. I've got too kids, a house, everything. But now that i've been solving this crisis for about two years it does not feel that bad. We're not old yet! But it feel like that when youäve got family and everything and many of your friends are still single. At least it's like that in my life. And sometimes I feel jealous when thinking those people free to do whatever while I'm busy at home with kids. But I really think this is the way it always goes. Especially when you get marriad and have kids at young age.

BTW; Rick's daughter was born exactly the same day than my younger daughter. :D That's funny indeed! ;) H.P. has it easy. He has no family and I wonder will he ever have it. Heäs got a young wife of my age who can also think that she prefers partying and that kind of lifestyle. And it's totally ok when both think that way. I'd probably be wondering if I did choose wrong if I wouldn't have got children. At least I've always thought that I wanna have kids at youg age so that I still have life to live when thay are older. ;)

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Wednesday, August 26th 2009, 10:38am

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I´m 28...I never had thought about age before this year, we´re not old, of course! but definitely we´re not teenagers...
.....and by the way, I'm feeling free.....
That's exactly the thing that makes me very very jealous sometimes. But I know I wouldn't be happy. I wasn't very happy as single. I mean it was good time but I prefer just very permanent relationships so I wasn't dating people very much...

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Wednesday, August 26th 2009, 12:01pm

I think that as long as you feel young, the age has no meaning ;)
It's just a number, of the years we have been here.
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Wednesday, August 26th 2009, 12:44pm

Yes it's like that. ;) But I think you start to feel yourself older earlier when you're responsible of kids and everything. You have to take care of some many issues etc. But to be honest I don't feel like I'd be very different from my single friends. I'm not just mother all the time. ;) But still I am whereever I am. That's the difference. I'm never resposible to just myself. And I never feel free. :wacko:

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Wednesday, August 26th 2009, 2:24pm

Everyone should be able to feel free :(

For people who has kids, like Cassandra, it could be a good idea to get someone to babysit the kids, so they can get a night out, or just my themselves.
A night without stress anc chaos, to be themselves again, like it was before the kids came.
A chance to be free, for one night, if you want to call it that ;)
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Wednesday, August 26th 2009, 3:21pm

I guess it depends what you mean by free, I agree everyone needs "me-time" when they can persue their own interests, and not always just feel like a wife / mother / carer etc; you do need time to be yourself

but when you marry, have children etc the responsibilites of that will always be with you, so life will never be exactly the same as it was, but I think the positives outweigh the negatives most of the time - but you do still need to exist as an individual :-)

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Wednesday, August 26th 2009, 3:24pm

I guess that's what I mean...
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